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A great day for Montana

by: Jay Stevens

Wed Oct 07, 2009 at 09:41:13 AM MST


Today is a great day for Montana and its citizenry:

The Montana Supreme Court Tuesday upheld parental rights for a Missoula woman who'd been part of a same-sex couple that cared for two adopted children, saying she's entitled to joint custody of the kids.

Supporters of the 6-1 decision hailed it as a victory for all parents, regardless of their marital status or sexual orientation.

"This is a victory for families in all shapes, sizes and colors," said Betsy Griffing, legal director for the American Civil Liberties Union of Montana.

Justice James Nelson also issued a special concurrence, in which he wrote a blistering denunciation of discrimination against homosexuals.

"Naming it for the evil it is, discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation is an expression of bigotry," he wrote. "Lesbian and gay Montanans must not be forced to fight to marry, to raise their children and to live with the same dignity that is accorded heterosexuals."

I've uploaded the decision (pdf) to LiTW for your reading pleasure.

Kudos to Justice Nelson, who confronted head-on the elephant in the room: bigotry. There's more of this kind of stuff from Nelson in another Dennison report:

"I remain absolutely convinced that homosexuals are entitled to enjoy precisely the same civil and natural rights as heterosexuals, as a matter of constitutional law," he wrote....

Nelson said the case shows that until the courts recognize homosexuals as "equal participants with heterosexuals in our society with exactly the same civil and natural rights, lesbian and gay citizens will continue to suffer homophobic discrimination."

"Regrettably, this sort of discrimination is both socially acceptable and politically popular," he wrote. "Sadly, this case represents yet another instance in which fellow Montanans, who happen to be lesbian or gay, are forced to battle for their fundamental rights to love who they want, to form intimate associations, to form family relationships, and to have and raise children - all elemental, natural rights that are accorded, presumptively and without thought or hesitation, to heterosexuals."

Personally, I think it's time to address the stain on Montana's constitution - Article XIII, section 7 - enacted in a fit of momentary delusion stoked by social conservatives, that singles out one particular group and, with malice, denies them access to a public institution that the rest of us enjoy.

Again, let's turn to Justice Marshall's perfect summation of marriage:

Marriage also bestows enormous private and social advantages on those who choose to marry. Civil marriage is at once a deeply personal commitment to another human being and a highly public celebration of the ideals of mutuality, companionship, intimacy, fidelity, and family. "It is an association that promotes a way of life, not causes; a harmony in living, not political faiths; a bilateral loyalty, not commercial or social projects." Griswold v. Connecticut, 381 U.S. 479, 486 (1965). Because it fulfils yearnings for security, safe haven, and connection that express our common humanity, civil marriage is an esteemed institution, and the decision whether and whom to marry is among life's momentous acts of self-definition.

And we know how legalizing gay marriage in Massachusetts wreaked havoc with that state's institution! That divorce rates shrunk to pre-WWII levels in Massachusetts means that divorce lawyers there are suffering profound economic losses...

Fighting for gay marriage has nothing to do with "gay rights" - but everything to do with human rights. Fighting for gay marriage does not threaten "traditional" marriage - but reaffirms it. Fighting for gay marriage is not part of some mysterious "homosexual agenda," it isn't about "special" rights for a small group, it's about protecting everybody's rights, straight or gay, married or single, by reaffirming that the state has no business regulating the intensely personal and private compact made by any two consenting adults, by reaffirming that the formation of relationships and families should be left unmolested by law, and that, at its core, marriage is about love.

So who's with me? Let's reverse the ban!

Jay Stevens :: A great day for Montana
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I'm not sure where exactly I stand on the next move for equality in Montana. My initial reaction is to repeal the constitutional gay marriage ban, but I know that's not an easy task to take on. So I don't rule that out, but I can't help but wonder if it is a better strategic move to tackle issues like housing and employment discrimination against gay/lesbian/trans citizens in the state.

While marriage equality is obviously a great goal and something I support 100%, I feel like tackling these housing and employment issues are possibly more of a pressing issue. Being denied housing or employment because you are gay/lesbian/trans can be devastating, especially for those living in small communities where housing and jobs are harder to come by.


Oh my Mr. Coobs! (0.00 / 0)
First of all...if you are "straight", you and your "straight" partner, could LEGALLY adopt a child in Montana...if you are a gay couple..you can't legally adopt a child.

I don't know, doesn't that sound like some sort of "SPECIAL right" or "victim" status for STRAIGHT couples?  Does to me...

But back to your "question"/troll....as a "straight man" that had been "shacked up" (I'm sure you would have considered it something other than a "shack up") with a woman that adopted children, I'm pretty sure you would be getting joint custody...after 10 years of being "shacked up".

You are indeed a moron.


No, I wouldn't (0.00 / 1)

I have a legitimate point.

There's lot's of guys living with their 'shack ups' -

And I've never heard of parental rights being awarded to one of those men.

If there has ever been such a case, please enlighten us.

Or - do you think this case makes a new precedent?

Where maybe a babysitter, who takes care of kids for years on end can claim parental rights?

Give us the benefit of your wisdom Big Sage - please -


You have a "point" but not necessarily a legitimate point. (0.00 / 0)
The KEY thing here is the children are ADOPTED...In the case of an adopted child it can, and has been, argued that the biological mother should also have some rights.

The other thing...a 10 year relationship is MORE than a "shack up"...often there is documentation and evidence of co parenthood...judges look for that kind of evidence in ALL custody cases...they want to see evidence that you have been actively involved in raising the child...something more than a "shack up"...

It isn't as easy to be awarded joint custody when an unmarried couple split up, and one partner is not the biological parent...but with persistence it happens because judges are reluctant to pry a child away from someone that has been involved with raising the child...

Mr. Coobs...what are you afraid of?  


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Funny, but by a 6-1 vote (0.00 / 0)
the Court disagrees with you...and the reasoning they cite is pretty much what I posted..when you are in a committed relationship, and you have contributed to the raising of a child, and you can shown through evidence and documentation, you are entitled to parental rights...REGARDLESS of sexual orientation...

But heck Mr. Coobs, that really is what you are AFRAID of isn't it...that the Court said regardless of sexual orientation you are entitled to the same rights and consideration....

You live in a narrow and bigoted world...


bigoted world ? (0.00 / 1)

I have posted for years that I have no problem with queers, and I'm a bigot ?

No wonder the liberals are themselves divided into camps - LOL


er... (0.00 / 0)
...just a bit of advice, Coobs. It's poor form to claim to be free of bigotry while using bigoted language.

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Yes (0.00 / 0)
I have claimed for years that I have no problem with queers, and I'm a bigot ?

Yes.  This has been another episode of simple answers to stupid questions.


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The thing I love about guys like (0.00 / 0)
Mr. Coobs is women would not have the right to vote and own property, blacks might still be slaves, and they certainly would not have the right to vote, go to the same school, eat in the same restaurant, ride the same bus...cus' that would be a "special right" or granting some kind of "victim status"...

I wonder if Mr. Coobs knows that one of the big arguments our founding fathers (opps, where were the women)had was whether the Congress would be a ruling elite, open only to the wealthiest, and in their mind, best educated, or a government off the people and by the people...as in ALL people.  Nearly 300 years later this debate continues....narrow...bigoted....versus inclusive.


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